January 24, 2012

Anonymous asked:

I’m a pansexual girl in a relationship with a guy. I love him deeply, but I feel incomplete sometimes because I’m also really attracted to girls and sometimes I just long to be with a girl sexually. Have other people felt this way? I’m afraid that I will feel like this forever and I will never really be able to have a committed relationship. (By the way, the same thing happened when I was dating a girl - I missed being with guys)?

Notes

  1. harleybond answered: Have you considered polyamory? I don’t feel the need to be with a person of every gender I am attracted to, but I definitely like multiples!
  2. spydretheunicorn answered: You may be polyamorus. Cause even though people say its wrong, some people just arent monogamous… (And not by choice).
  3. debbycus answered: I’m pan in a relationship too, but I don’t feel incomplete, I sometimes feel sexually frustrated. Talk to your boyfriend, propose threesome?
  4. storiesbybrady answered: maybe you don’t really want a monogamous relationship right now
  5. laurahasatumblrnow answered: I’m not one for giving advice but I know exactly how you feel. You’ll just have to find a way to discuss it with your partner I guess.
  6. rainbowcasoup answered: I’ve felt that way before. I don’t really have any reassurance to offer, other than that you’re not alone. Sorry. :/
  7. livingeachmoment answered: You could try being in a poly relationship? Some people just aren’t built for monogamy.
  8. ilungas answered: Yeah I completely feel that way
  9. mrcharlieevans answered: Yes I’ve felt that way and no I
  10. aliceandhercrocodile answered: No I am going through the exct same thing. but for me it is just a sexual attraction to a particular girl and a deep love for the man im with
  11. definedapper answered: I reblogged and answered, since there wasn’t enough room here :)
  12. theoceanic answered: I really love being polyamorous. The problem is not unsolvable in a monogamous model, but I enjoy committed polyamorous relationships.
  13. definedapper reblogged this from pansexualpride
  14. cthulhuhoop answered: When you find the right person, that PERSON will be enough for you. Whatever they’re missing won’t seem like a flaw anymore…
  15. quantumspork answered: It might be a good idea to sensitively and carefully breach the topic of polyamory with him—just be sure to be honest and don’t let it fester
  16. joysanchez answered: Go for polyamory, that could make you happiest
  17. feministradical answered: Whatever you decide to do, please be open with him. Secrets can hurt far more than the truth.
  18. warlike answered: Have you considered that you might be polyamorous?
  19. t33nagewh0re answered: This feeling has damaged all of my relationships so far. :\
  20. fuckyoujesus answered: I know that I have. I feel exactly the same way I suppose it’s just something everyone in positions like ours has to deal w/.talk to someone!
  21. iggymarauder answered: I had the same problem. I solved it by forming an open, polyamourous relationship. It has worked for me, but might not for you. Think on it.
  22. frombelowfromabove answered: You could consider having an open relationship - if you’d be honest to each other about who, what, where, etc. then it should be no problem:)
  23. blaufisk answered: Agreed, perhaps you should invest in an open relationship to see if it satisfies your needs?
  24. sheepdean answered: I think anon needs a polyamorous or open relationship, or at least to experience one for some time.
  25. learntocheat answered: have you considered that you’re perhaps polyamorous, and also pansexual?.. just a thought.
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